shoot down the stars

so i was having a conversation with my friend about trust and other things on the way to the club lol weird yes but sometimes in the weirdest moments are when the most enlightenment is achieved. anywho trust is a big thing in any relationship whether friendship or love. once trust is broken it's one of the hardest things to ever achieve again especially for me. if i find out you've lied to me all hope is lost for the most part it's hard to trust to begin with so if you lie the me that part of me that has opened up is no more. in any situation where trust is lost in someone or a situation happens to change or distort our belief in each other we tend to blame the other person. i honestly believe that when people lie to us we shouldn't just turn our back on them there was a reason as to why they lied and for every lie there is an ounce of truth that lay within the walls of that lie. i'm a firm believer in god and everything happening for a reason, everyone isn't meant to be your friend but at the same time grudges shouldn't be held. the truth will come out one way or another that doesn't mean to run out and scream every secret you have but don't shut yourself out from others because of it...i'm learning each and every day to do just that because in the end you miss a lot of opportunities from not trusting in people regardless of how much ppl have hurt you.

this wasn't even what i wanted to write but it's what came out =]