shoot down the stars

so i was having a conversation with my friend about trust and other things on the way to the club lol weird yes but sometimes in the weirdest moments are when the most enlightenment is achieved. anywho trust is a big thing in any relationship whether friendship or love. once trust is broken it's one of the hardest things to ever achieve again especially for me. if i find out you've lied to me all hope is lost for the most part it's hard to trust to begin with so if you lie the me that part of me that has opened up is no more. in any situation where trust is lost in someone or a situation happens to change or distort our belief in each other we tend to blame the other person. i honestly believe that when people lie to us we shouldn't just turn our back on them there was a reason as to why they lied and for every lie there is an ounce of truth that lay within the walls of that lie. i'm a firm believer in god and everything happening for a reason, everyone isn't meant to be your friend but at the same time grudges shouldn't be held. the truth will come out one way or another that doesn't mean to run out and scream every secret you have but don't shut yourself out from others because of it...i'm learning each and every day to do just that because in the end you miss a lot of opportunities from not trusting in people regardless of how much ppl have hurt you.

this wasn't even what i wanted to write but it's what came out =]

please don't strip my mind

umm once again a billion thoughts have passed through this brain today and while i was taking a shower [which i love to do because it's like all worries wash away] until you step out of course. i realized that i spent so much time worrying about everyone else and showing them their worth and what lays within them that i've passed myself up time and time again. it's like being given a gift on your birthday but you never open it instead you go to the kid that's angry and help them out on YOUR birthday. subconciously killing my own blessings because trust in people seems to fail me and i always get the short end of the stick. expect nothing wait for the bad news because it's coming somewhere within the happiness but hope for the best. so then when the good is there excuses pop up as to why happiness cannot be trusted because sooner or later like everything else it's going to be taken away. so walls are built up time and time again so that when it does go wrong n surprises are there because "it always happens this way".. i been taught to numb things sedated don't confront needs. so what happens when it doesn't go wrong?  i love beyonce's song save the hero ..i'm not strong enough to cry despite my disguise..this part really gets me well a little piece of me..i've never let people get to see the emotional part of me but i'm getting better though emotions were always another thing people could use against you so i never showed them. no i'm not a robot but sometimes it's the only thing keeping me from myself at times my heart is too big for it's own good and that's taken for granted a lot..i've given so much of myself and now it's driving me crazy..moving from that lately boys/men whatever you want to call them have been doing more than usual and i question people's motives for everything it's a habit i need to break but breaking habits is hard to do..even hello makes me wonder ppl watching is a hobby of mine though lol and i hear the whispers behind the good intentions but anyway back to the topic at hand lol [ i tend to get off track because my thoughts tend to battle each other whoops] but back to this boy thing relationship never have been my thing probably never will but i would love to be in LOVE the ups and downs everything. I just haven't freed myself enough for another to get in and know me the me that hates putting in contacts and gets extremely flustered at the smallest things lol. Yes, i've been hurt but i'm human we all have but i believe we shouldn't stop our selves from being held in the rapture that love possess. People assume that because i look a certain way and tend to be quiet around people i don't know i'm some stuck up bitch..far from the truth i have my moments just like everyone else but if they knew then they'd know forehead kisses make me cry..simple things matter to me it doesn't take the world to please me just accept me for me. 

take off your cool and lose control.

so school is coming up again and the closer the date gets the more upset i get. i hate school always have and always will being told that these classes are what I NEED to KNOW in order to be SOMEBODY rubs me the wrong damn way. what is college algebra going to teach me about life or computer class for that matter. I SHOULD love school because i'm so good at getting the grades but I say EFF school! I'd rather roam the world freely learning things I love and make me happy no worries no stress of letting ppl down nothing just me. just a year ago i was ready to go into my 2nd semester had to let some friendships go because it wasn't what i wanted or needed for that matter. it's like being in a relationship you know isn't benefiting you but you don't know how to let go and move on without hurting the other person. yes it ended badly , but i was happier with myself for doing it "tell me who your friends are and i'll show you exactly who you are."  it's a year later and i've grown up so much from the person i was just last week ready to finally let people in to who i am and not what they think i am. The real world scares me though lol but i'm ready i think just because it's 2009 doesn't mean i'm going to throw out some lie and say "it's a new me" because it's not i'll always be me diff sides and all. Until then i'll continue to roam in my heels as a free bird .

good intentions.carefree joy

i use to want to have someone who understood. then i realized that you can't expect people to understand where you're coming from because they didn't go through what you did. For others to fully understand they'd have to first experience everything that you have which is impossible. Two people could go through the same things and yet still see different things before them. some days when i'm with my thoughts i drift off wondering why i can never just have nothing floating around in my head. to have no thoughts be clear often times i can't sleep due to the many little dreams and aspirations and words that dance within my head. but it's what makes me who i am the complicated individual who longs for many things this world isn't ready to provide.

until then it's me and my thoughts.